Ifs

If only I could.........

If ever.... ........

What if I........

These statements do not need an explanation.

But if you are someone who achieved most of what you desire and wished for in life, then it is most likely for you to stay just the way you are now and forget these.

Well in my case, I often think what could I be if I made an alternate decision. What profession I am having now if only I knew more about the cruel things that happen in real world. What impression do people have in me if only I chose wisely in the past.

All of those are now ifs/ what ifs that cannot be change. They're just part of the forgone opportunity of the past, cannot be altered, cannot be chosen and should be forgotten.

It is easier said than done, right?

This is due to the fact that people are meant to make decisions that seemed best for them not knowing that they do it impulsively and without much thinking. Another reason for this is considering the bandwagon, and 'follow as I say' culture imposed by the elders and those personalities who shouldn't be of concern to you.

Then how could I accept things openheartedly and not regret every decision I made?

Actually, I do not know.